Family & Relationships Vocabulary

50+ Chinese words for family members, relationships, and social connections, with pinyin, English, examples, and HSK levels.

Family Members (家庭成员 jiātíng chéngyuán)

Note on Chinese address terms: Chinese distinguishes between paternal and maternal relatives. Your father's parents are 爷爷/奶奶 (yéye/nǎinai), while your mother's parents are 外公/外婆 (wàigōng/wàipó). Siblings are also addressed differently based on relative age: 哥哥 (older brother) vs 弟弟 (younger brother).

Immediate Family (直系亲属 zhíxì qīnshǔ)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
爸爸 bàba father / dad 我爸爸是老师。My dad is a teacher. 1
妈妈 māma mother / mom 妈妈做的饭很好吃。Mom's cooking is delicious. 1
父母 fùmǔ parents 我父母住在北京。My parents live in Beijing. 3
哥哥 gēge older brother 我哥哥比我大三岁。My older brother is 3 years older than me. 1
姐姐 jiějie older sister 姐姐在上海工作。My older sister works in Shanghai. 1
弟弟 dìdi younger brother 弟弟今年六岁。My younger brother is 6 this year. 1
妹妹 mèimei younger sister 妹妹喜欢唱歌。My younger sister likes to sing. 1
儿子 érzi son 他有一个儿子。He has one son. 2
女儿 nǚ'ér daughter 她的女儿很聪明。Her daughter is very smart. 2
孩子 háizi child / children 你有几个孩子?How many children do you have? 1
丈夫 zhàngfu husband 她丈夫是医生。Her husband is a doctor. 3
妻子 qīzi wife 他妻子在家工作。His wife works from home. 3
老公 lǎogōng husband (colloquial) 我老公很帅。My husband is very handsome.
老婆 lǎopó wife (colloquial) 老婆,吃饭了!Honey, time to eat!

Paternal Relatives (父方亲戚 fùfāng qīnqi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
爷爷 yéye paternal grandfather 爷爷每天早上打太极。Grandpa does tai chi every morning. 2
奶奶 nǎinai paternal grandmother 奶奶做的饺子最好吃。Grandma's dumplings are the best. 2
祖父 zǔfù paternal grandfather (formal) 祖父今年八十岁了。My grandfather is 80 this year. 4
祖母 zǔmǔ paternal grandmother (formal) 祖母身体很健康。My grandmother is in good health. 4
叔叔 shūshu father's younger brother / uncle 叔叔送给我一本书。My uncle gave me a book. 3
伯伯 bóbo father's older brother 伯伯家在广州。My uncle's family is in Guangzhou.
姑姑 gūgu father's sister / aunt 姑姑明天来我们家。Auntie is coming to our house tomorrow.
堂哥 táng gē father's brother's son (older) 堂哥和我一起去学校。My cousin and I go to school together.
堂弟 táng dì father's brother's son (younger) 堂弟很调皮。My younger cousin is naughty.
侄子 zhízi nephew (brother's son) 侄子今年三岁了。My nephew is 3 this year.
侄女 zhínǚ niece (brother's daughter) 侄女很可爱。My niece is very cute.

Maternal Relatives (母方亲戚 mǔfāng qīnqi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
外公 wàigōng maternal grandfather 外公喜欢钓鱼。My maternal grandpa likes fishing.
外婆 wàipó maternal grandmother 外婆住在农村。My maternal grandma lives in the countryside.
姥爷 lǎoye maternal grandfather (N. China) 姥爷讲故事给我听。Grandpa tells me stories.
姥姥 lǎolao maternal grandmother (N. China) 姥姥每天接我放学。Grandma picks me up from school every day.
舅舅 jiùjiu mother's brother / uncle 舅舅在美国工作。My uncle works in the US.
阿姨 āyí mother's sister / aunt; also "auntie" 阿姨送给我礼物。Auntie gave me a gift. 2
表哥 biǎogē maternal cousin (older male) 表哥考上了北京大学。My cousin got into Peking University.
表姐 biǎojiě maternal cousin (older female) 表姐结婚了。My older female cousin got married.
表弟 biǎodì maternal cousin (younger male) 表弟在读高中。My younger cousin is in high school.
表妹 biǎomèi maternal cousin (younger female) 表妹非常聪明。My younger female cousin is very smart.
外甥 wàishenɡ nephew (sister's son) 外甥长得像他爸爸。My nephew looks like his father.
外甥女 wàishengnǚ niece (sister's daughter) 外甥女很喜欢画画。My niece loves drawing.

Grandchildren & Extended

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
孙子 sūnzi grandson (son's son) 爷爷很疼孙子。Grandpa dotes on his grandson. 4
孙女 sūnnǚ granddaughter (son's daughter) 孙女每周末来看我们。Our granddaughter visits us every weekend.
外孙 wàisūn grandson (daughter's son) 外孙很活泼。My daughter's son is very lively.
外孙女 wàisūnnǚ granddaughter (daughter's daughter) 外孙女和奶奶很亲。My granddaughter is very close to grandma.
亲戚 qīnqi relatives 过年的时候,亲戚都来了。During New Year, all the relatives came. 4

Social Relationships (社会关系 shèhuì guānxi)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
朋友 péngyou friend 他是我最好的朋友。He is my best friend. 1
好朋友 hǎo péngyou good friend / best friend 我们是好朋友。We are good friends. 1
同学 tóngxué classmate / schoolmate 这是我的同学王红。This is my classmate Wang Hong. 1
同事 tóngshì colleague / coworker 我和同事一起去吃午饭。I have lunch with my colleagues. 3
邻居 línjū neighbor 我们的邻居很友好。Our neighbors are very friendly. 3
男朋友 nánpéngyou boyfriend 她男朋友很高。Her boyfriend is very tall. 2
女朋友 nǚpéngyou girlfriend 他有女朋友了!He has a girlfriend now! 2
老板 lǎobǎn boss 老板对我们很好。The boss is very good to us. 3
上司 shàngsī superior / supervisor 我上司批准了我的假期。My supervisor approved my leave.
下属 xiàshǔ subordinate 他有五个下属。He has five subordinates.
陌生人 mòshēngrén stranger 不要和陌生人说话。Don't talk to strangers.

Relationship Events (关系事件 guānxi shìjiàn)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
结婚 jiéhūn to get married 他们去年结婚了。They got married last year. 3
离婚 líhūn to get divorced 他们离婚了。They got divorced. 4
订婚 dìnghūn to get engaged 他们刚订婚。They just got engaged.
恋爱 liàn'ài to be in a romantic relationship 他们在谈恋爱。They are dating. 4
分手 fēnshǒu to break up 他们分手了。They broke up.

Family & Home (家庭与家 jiātíng yǔ jiā)

Chinese Pinyin English Example Sentence HSK
jiā home / family / house 我回家了。I'm home. 1
家庭 jiātíng family (as a unit) 我的家庭有四口人。My family has four people. 2
家人 jiārén family members 我很想家人。I miss my family. 3
家乡 jiāxiāng hometown 我的家乡在四川。My hometown is in Sichuan. 4
父亲 fùqīn father (formal) 父亲节快乐!Happy Father's Day! 3
母亲 mǔqīn mother (formal) 母亲节快乐!Happy Mother's Day! 3
兄弟 xiōngdì brothers / siblings (male) 我们是兄弟!We are brothers! 4
姐妹 jiěmèi sisters / female siblings 她们是姐妹。They are sisters. 4
独生子女 dúshēng zǐnǚ only child 他是独生子女。He is an only child.

Key Grammar Notes

Expressing possession: Use 的 (de) between pronoun and family term:

  • 我的爸爸 (wǒ de bàba) — my father
  • 他的妻子 (tā de qīzi) — his wife

Counting family members: Use 口 (kǒu) as measure word:

  • 我家有三口人。(Wǒ jiā yǒu sān kǒu rén.) — My family has three people.

Addressing vs. referring: In Chinese, you call your father 爸爸 to his face but may say 我爸 (wǒ bà) when referring to him in conversation.

Paternal vs. Maternal distinction:

Relative Paternal Side Maternal Side
Grandfather 爷爷 yéye 外公 wàigōng / 姥爷 lǎoye
Grandmother 奶奶 nǎinai 外婆 wàipó / 姥姥 lǎolao
Uncle 叔叔 shūshu / 伯伯 bóbo 舅舅 jiùjiu
Aunt 姑姑 gūgu 阿姨 āyí
Cousin 堂哥/堂弟/堂姐/堂妹 表哥/表弟/表姐/表妹